Being single can be one of two things: perfect, or terrible.
It’s all about how you approach to fun and the mindset you manifest surrounding your solo life, and if you feel yourself slipping into the realm of boredom, then it is clearly time to spice it up. So whether the focus of your fun be on your sexuality, as being single very much highlights this facet of life, requiring only the best adult toys for women to get the job done, or if it is more experienced and mentally based, we’re here to showcase you exactly how this can be done.
Need to Spice Things Up?
Living an exciting and interesting life is essential to your health and happiness. When you are doing the same things every day, your brain will fall into a mundane form of autopilot.
It stops focusing on the present moment and starts creating fewer memories, and time starts flying faster and faster. One should strive to live a more exciting and interesting life, a life with fewer regrets, and one that’s moments turn into memories, as chasing and creating memories will in turn make yourself more memorable, someone that others will want to get to know.
Reasons for Boring Life
First, do you always look to the masses for inspiration on what to do. Now there’s nothing wrong with looking to others for inspiration once in a while. That is human nature.
But when what all you’re doing is what everyone else is doing, ‘you’ by definition become boring, as you may be following the truths of others and not your own.
The only way to combat this is to start doing things that you genuinely want.
The second reason your life may be boring is that you are scared of venturing outside of the comfort zone.
You’re not quite sure what will happen when you go out and try that new thing or talk to that new person or go to that new place. There’s a chance that you might get rejected, or you might mess up or you might look like a fool and that can be a bit scary.
The more things you experience, the more unique stories you will have. The more you will learn about the world, and the more you’ll have seen, which will in turn develop your character and turn you into a more interesting person.
Here are 8 ways you can spice up your single life and have fun.
Learn to be alone when you are single. If you are newly single, stick to the ‘three month rule’, which is staying away from commitments at least for three months. Meanwhile, focus on yourself trying to improve your spiritual, physical, and mental health. Read books if you want to, visit places where you’ve always wanted to go, work on solo sexualy discovery. Anything that helps you to better learn yourself deep down.
Find your Passion
Being single, you have plenty of time to learn new skills and figure out what you are passionate about. And once you’ve found your passion, stick to it and try to deepen it, as being single allows you to think entirely for yourself during this discovery.
Choose your Path
You can sulk around or be miserable during this single time, or you can just try to have fun and embrace the moment, doing things you once actually enjoyed, and using this time to find hobbies you love.
Try to seize the moment by choosing a path, and sticking to it, as this will occupy your time, your body, and your mind, providing to you a special form of purpose.
Reconnect with Friends
Hang out with your friends that you forgot to maintain friendships with!
Friendships are like Bonsai trees. You need to maintain them or else they get bushy and ugly.
The thing is, we tend to forget about friendships and feel like they’re not as important to us because we focus all of our time and attention on one person.
When you break up with your partner, your friends and family are all you’ve got.
Hit up a friend with a quick hello, call an unexpecting friend and maybe get a drink with him/her. Bring back the friendships that once mattered so much.
Embrace the Opportunities
Meet new people!
They will expand, compliment and spice up your personality. That’s how it is, as we are a product of the people we meet and the things we do.
Do not close your doors to potential partners. Give them the chance to take you out on dates and who knows, it may spice up your single life.
Live your Life Unfiltered
Be the driver of your life’s car and steer in any direction you want. If you live alone in your apartment, and you don’t feel like wearing clothes, then don’t wear them!
If you want to lie all alone in a king-sized bed and explore your sexuality, do it! Because you can. Ultimately, you will learn to be okay by yourself and you’ll understand that you don’t need anybody.
Invest in Yourself
By investment, this not only means money, but attention, care and love.
Be Intentional about your life and create a new vibe. The money and time you invested in another person, giving them surprises, making them happy, try doing the same things for yourself too. Pierce your nipples if you want to, but those nice clothes. Because that’s what singles do.
Exercise Regularly and Eat a Balanced Diet
While being single, you should put more effort into staying fit and healthy. This includes eating well, especially breakfast, and exercising regularly. Hit the gym and get into shape. Play sports as well, such as tennis, basketball, football, volleyball, etc.